Guys - do me a favor.

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Recently met a couple I have never seen before in my life on a group ride. She rides pillion. Her hubby was very cordial and was telling me and my husband how he wished he could get his wife to ride her own but she doesn't want to.

The whole time she was obviously cool to me...not to anyone else but me. I kept thinking ...what?...I've never met these folks. What is her problem with me? Hubbie said maybe because I ride my own and he was going on about it a bit.

It's a personal choice to ride...not something that someone should be talked into....if someone else (significaant other etc...) starts to ride just because they were bugged into it and then something happened...well just imagine the guilt trip.

So do me a favor...if your significant other doesn't have any interest in riding her (or his) own...leave it be.

It would have been great if instead of not talking to me...she talked about it....we might have really connected and I might could have my hubbie hint to hers to leave it be if the subject arised again. I'm really a nice person and hate it when someone I've never met acts like I've done something to them...oh well. :-/

Okay....pound away at me...I'm ready. :-*