Tires, tires, tires

[tkd]

I really need tires badly, but I am extremely confused. I have searched every board, asked every tech, talked to every parts department and I am still lost. My 4 choices

Metzler 880----you guys either love it or hate it, no in between
Dunlop 404-----great reviews, but y'all say it's a 5k tire....not good
Michelin Commander. Great name, great price, no feedback.
Dunlop E-3's. Don't know much about them other than Wing riders love them apparently

This is my first big bike and she needs shoes now. Someone help me out here. I'm not looking for anything to carve with, but some stickiness would be nice as would ride quality. Mileage is important, but it's the most variable by rider from what I read.

Someone point me in the right direction please?